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This year, with everything that is happening at work and with the puppy, I have not spent as much time thinking about aging and being underachieving in my life. I mean, with the things that are going on in my job & my carreer, I have come to term with not being on any “40Continue reading “39”

“But the truth I learned here is, you had to leave because you’re you. I liked you for who you are; and who you are is a person who leaves. But for him, you’re the person who stays” – Past lives After a grueling 32-hour flight with 2 layovers, we are finally back in Vietnam.Continue reading “Past lives”

What’s with all this “New Year. New You” bs? I mean, what’s wrong with the old one? I mean, he’s not great but he’s doing his best. Okay. How about “New year, just slightly improved you” and a lot less anxious about how to continuously optimize ourselves like some sort of vague capitalism concept? HereContinue reading “New year, a slightly improved you”

I’m in Vancouver for the weekend. I’m here to see Canadian National treasure, Americans folk singer, talented actor, otherwise known as my imaginary other husband, Noah Reid. As I’m sitting in the airport, I couldn’t help but wonder, more like being amazed, by what a change twenty years have brought. Twenty years ago, a flightContinue reading “Nostalgia state of mind”

Yesterday (September 30th) marked the National Day for Truth and Reconciliation in Canada. It was a day for all of us to listen, to learn, and to understand the truth of this country. There is no reconciliation without truths.  I gave a short talk before our stand-up about my experience as an immigrant, a newcomer toContinue reading “The kindness of strangers”

  I will never take for granted the privilege that my Canadian passport grants me. It takes less than 3 minutes to clear customs (“Where did you go?” – “Why did you go there” – “OK, bye”). It wasn’t long enough to finish an Ariana Grande song. I’ve said many times, that I am stillContinue reading “Connections”

 “When destiny calls you, you’ve gotta be strong. I may not be with you but you’ve gotta hold on” – it’s been a while since I listen to that song. I guess the perk of traveling on a road trip is the rediscovery of old things and new alike. I guess it’s almost a traditionContinue reading “Solo – A nomad update”

As we were trying to explain to a coffee shop owner in Bern (a bit of a himbo) our friendship and where we met – 3 Asians from different South East Asia nations (Brunei, Malaysia, Vietnam) who met in school in Singapore and now live in Canada, Geneva, and Zurich – I couldn’t help butContinue reading “In this small (dying) world”

This is a story about a girl, well, a woman, who has been a major part of my life. We have been friends for 2 decades now. Half of a lifetime. The funny thing is, we don’t spend a lot of time together in the same place, but I always think of her with admirationContinue reading “About a girl”